What Does Spirituality Mean to You?

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The word ‘spirituality’ has a different meaning for different people. I believe that spirituality is something we carry within ourselves. It is expressed, or “outwardly manifested,” by our sense of self and our sense of respect for others.
There is nothing inherently special in being spiritual, being in touch with that higher or inner self. I am not referring to the outward displays of “Spirituality” or the “look at how spiritual I am I can rest in the lotus position for 3 days” brigade. A true connection to the higher being within us IS our natural state.
Objectively, spirituality embraces the theories, practices and social structures that answer the existential questions that arise out of the nature of being human “Who am I?” “What are I?” and “What is my purpose?”

Spirituality is not about converting you to a specific way of thinking. It is about your personal insights and experience, associated with your personal quest to discover your essence or “true identify” and subsequently reach the pinnacle of your being and achieve everything you want from life.

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The One Minute Meditation

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Meditation has a number of very important benefits, both to our minds and our bodies.  With all these important benefits, you would think that everyone would meditate every day.  One of the most frequent reasons people give for not engaging in daily meditation sessions is lack of time.  Many people simply are too busy living their daily lives and making a living, and they feel they do not have the time and energy to devote to meditation.

That is where the one-minute meditation comes in.  As the name implies, the one-minute meditation takes a mere 60 seconds, and even the busiest person can spare that much time.

The one-minute meditation is also one of the easiest to do.  There are no mantras to repeat, no candles to burn, no complicated yoga positions.  The one-minute meditation simply consists of taking three deep breaths.

Try this simple breathing exercise.  Breathe in through your mouth, and then breathe instead through your nose.  When you breathe through your mouth your chest will expand, while nose breathing expands your diaphragm and your abdomen instead.  Breathing through your nose will cause the diaphragm to engage, bringing air much deeper into your lungs.  This means that more oxygen is being delivered to your bloodstream and your organs, and this results in a greater level of relaxation.

That is why breath control is such a fundamental of meditation.  At the extreme end of the spectrum are those religious leaders who can use meditation to slow their breathing almost to the point of imperceptibility.  It is of course not necessary for the average person to take breathing control to this extreme, but learning how to breath properly can help us relax and get more out of even the shortest meditation session.

All you need to do to engage in a successful one-minute meditation is to close your eyes, let your thoughts drift away, and take three slow, deliberate and deep breaths through your nose.  Pay attention to your breathing as you inhale and exhale each breath, and note how much better you feel after having done so.

This meditation exercise will of course not take you into a deep contemplative state of mind, nor will it allow you to commune with your inner child.  The one-minute meditation will, however, allow you to relax and recharge, making it a perfect exercise for whenever you feel stressed out or overwhelmed by the day.  The beauty of the one-minute meditation is that it can be done virtually anywhere – at the office, at home, at lunchtime, or even in your car.  This one-minute recharging session can definitely help you get through a busy and stressful day.

It is a good idea to make this one-minute meditation a regular ritual.  Try doing the one-minute meditation first thing every morning, or right before bedtime.  Performing this simple exercise upon waking can help you charge the batteries and get ready for the day, while doing it at nighttime can relax you and get you ready for a restful night’s sleep.  Making a habit out of something healthy, like the one-minute meditation, is certainly better than making a habit out of something harmful, like alcohol or cigarettes.

The one-minute meditation is perfect for those who feel they do not have time to meditate.  This simple exercise can be used on its own, or combined with other, more sophisticated, meditation techniques.  Try it for a few days.  You may be wondering how you ever got along without it.

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Avoid This Common Meditation Mistake

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The point of meditation of course is to achieve the feeling of being centered, and to let go of everyday concerns and issues.  While this concept is certainly easy to understand, putting that theory into practice can be quite difficult to achieve.  How to actually achieve that balance and sense of well-being can be quite elusive, and there are many ways to achieve this important goal.

Some of the most common ways to achieve the inner balance that meditation offers include reciting mantras, controlling breathing patterns and even more physically demanding activities like Qi Gong and yoga.

The best practice is to make the most of the time you have available and do what works for you personally.  There is no one right way to meditate, and too many people make the mistake of making meditation into a bigger challenge than it really is.

For many people, simply repeating a word or mantra provides a great deal of mental and physical relaxation.  While there are of course common words and phrases that are used, it is important to find the one that works best for you personally.  Whether it is the traditional “Om” or a phrase that is understood only by you, the key is to personalize your mantra to make it work for you.

Many people who are new to meditation make too much of a deal out of controlling their breathing patterns.  Controlling breathing patterns is not as difficult or as complicated as it sounds – the key is to simply breathe.  Meditation can be as simple as taking a deep breath and slowly letting it out.

One of the best ways to achieve the benefits of meditation and the benefits of exercise at the same time is to engage in a physically active meditation like yoga or trance dancing.  If you think such activities are right for you, be sure to look for a gym or community organization that offers them.

It is important to remember that traditional forms of exercise can be a form of meditation as well.  If swimming in the local pool relaxes you, include it as part of your meditation program.  If you prefer martial arts, include that.  Often simply going for a long walk in the woods can provide a powerful antidote to a stressful day.  The key is to do what works for you, rather than to try to fit your meditation program into a one size fits all mold.

One of the most common obstacles encountered by those who are new to meditation is feeling that there is not enough time to meditate.  We all lead busy lives these days, and it can be difficult to make time for yet another activity, no matter how important it may be.  As you can see, however, meditation can be made into a part of everyday life, and this can make it much easier to enjoy the benefits of this ancient practice without sacrificing your precious spare time.

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